| I find my self asking the question:
how much of a separate life is normal for a couple?
Really? How much is normal. Is it normal for couples to spend only 1 in every 3 weekends apart. Would that be too distant, would that be not enough time together?
Is it normal for partners to have friends of the opposite sex who they have drinks with one on one on occasions.
What is normal... for couples?
I find myself asking these questions as in my head I see myself pretty well involved in a partners life. But recently I see my self on the side lines of their life and more of a I'm here when they need stability but other wise gone kind of person. So things are distant. But then a little distance could be good, I mean we still have our own lives.
But what's normal? How much is too much of either. More so what's the right amount??
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| Something I wrote to cheer up a close friend a while ago, their response was very positive, so I thought I'd share it: - there was a bit more written this was edited to only be the main part::
Your a very special person who has a lot to offer . Everything's going to be ok. I'll kiss you repeatedly until we make it so. Non-stop. :p The future is a clean path not yet touched that is yours for the taking, you can bend it twist it any way you want, and it's yours to walk and skip along. No one in anyway can touch or taint your path. It's yours waiting for you to take it to any rainbow you wish, to any blue sky you wish, and to rest on the side with a picnic at any time you want. It's not a race, it's not a competition it's a path that is waiting for you every morning and it wants you to be happy. Take some deep breaths, relax. Tell your self that you approve of your self. And feel loved. Cause you are. The day is yours enjoy it as much as you can.
© RAMcK 2009
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| It takes a bigger man to say sorry. Advice given to me from someone wise and intelligent. (this is a compliment to them)
I've been finding myself holding very tight to grudges and not giving an inch at all. I decided to not take any shit and fight every fight and was doing so for a little while.
After getting this advice i've decided to apologies for my actions of returning a fight over something that perhaps I could have let go of. And even though I had many grounds I was not right on all fronts.
I apologised.
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| I hate talking to people on phones when I don't know them.
I hate it.
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| I think I just hit that point.
That point when walking in the other direction feels more right.
I was determined, I pushed that path for a long time,
but now I'm walking the other way,
on a new path
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